Loving, Leaving, Living With The Narcissist In Your Life. - with Wendy Behary.

Loving, Leaving, Living With... The Narcissist In Your Life
- with Wendy Behary.

Registration is now open for the Online Membership Community

Whether you are trying to effectively engage, trying to leave, or have already ended the relationship and are dealing with the difficult aftermath, or you're simply not sure
what to do...

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Loving, Leaving, Living With... The Narcissist In Your Life!

With Wendy Behary, International Expert on Narcissism and Author of the Best Selling Book, Disarming the Narcissist.

Who Should Join

This supportive online community is designed for anyone who is currently involved with or still struggling with the leftover residue of being involved with a narcissist.  

Common Signs of Narcissism:

  • Self-Absorbed—acts like everything is all about him or her
  • Entitled—makes the rules; breaks the rules
  • Demeaning—puts you down, bullyish
  • Demanding—of whatever he or she wants
  • Distrustful—suspicious of your motives when you’re being nice to him or her
  • Perfectionistic—rigidly high standards, his or her way or no way
  • Snobbish—believes he or she is superior to you and others
  • Approval Seeking—craves constant praise and recognition
  • Unempathetic—uninterested in understanding your inner experience
  • Unremorseful—cannot offer a genuine apology
  • Compulsive—gets overly consumed with details
  • Addictive—cannot let go of bad habits, including sexual preoccupation
  • Emotionally Detached—steers clear of feelings
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Whether you are trying to effectively engage, trying to leave, or have already ended the relationship and are dealing with the difficult aftermath, or you're simply not sure what to do...
Along with the support of others who truly understand the experience and what it means to deal with a narcissistic person, Wendy will facilitate an online support group, offer mini-lectures, and bring other leading experts on the subject into this forum... helping you to learn and practice effective strategies, such as:
  • Identifying and Healing Self-Defeating Patterns in These Complex Relationships
  • Coping with and Healing from the Trauma of Betrayal
  • Restoring a Broken Trust After Infidelity, Pornography/Sexual Preoccupation
  • Empathic Confrontation
  • Limit Setting
  • Reclaim Your VOICE and Your Self Worth!
  • An Online Support Session 
  • A Seminar 
  • There will also be Special Guest Interviews with Other Leading Experts on the Subject of Narcissism
  • You will have Access to Important Resources
  • You will find all of your recordings accessible on the website to watch anytime – this is exclusively for members.

About Wendy


Wendy Behary

With 30 years of professional experience and advanced level certifications, Wendy Behary is the founder and director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC-DC. She has been treating clients, training professionals and supervising psychotherapists for more than 20 years. Wendy was on the faculty of the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York (until the Institutes merged in 2012), where she trained and worked with Dr. Jeffrey Young since 1989. She is a founding fellow and consulting supervisor for The Academy of Cognitive Therapy (Aaron T. Beck’s Institute).  Wendy served as the President of the Executive Board of the International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST) from 2010-2014 and served as the Training and Certification Coordinator for the ISST Executive Board from 2008-2010. She is currently the chair of the Schema Therapy Development Programs Sub-Committee for the ISST.

Wendy Behary has co-authored several chapters and articles on Schema Therapy and Cognitive Therapy. She is the author of an international bestselling book, "Disarming the Narcissist...”  translated in 15 languages. The Third Edition was recently released.  Wendy has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them. As an author and subject matter expert on narcissism, she is a contributing chapter author of several chapters on schema therapy for narcissism for professional readers. She lectures both nationally and internationally to professional and general audiences on schema therapy, narcissism, interpersonal relationships, anger, and dealing with difficult people. She receives consistent high praise for her clear and articulate teaching style and her ability to bring the therapy to life through dramatic demonstrations of client interactions in the treatment room.

Her work industry business speaking engagements focus on interpersonal conflict resolution. Her private practice is primarily devoted to treating narcissists, partners/people dealing with them, and couples experiencing relationship problems.

Publications:

Behary, W. T., Farrell, J. M., Vaz, A., Rousmaniere, T., Deliberate Practice in Schema Therapy (Essentials of Deliberate Practice), American Psychological Association; 1st edition (February 28, 2023).

Heath, G., Startup, H., Schema Therapy: Advances and Innovation in Clinical Practice, Chapter Author, Behary, W., Empathic Confrontation and Limit Setting, Routledge Press, London, (2020).

Beck, A.T., Davis D., and Freeman, A., Third Edition, Cognitive Therapy of Personality Disorders, Chapter Author, Behary, W., and Davis, D., Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Guilford Press (October 2014).

Behary, W., Disarming the Narcissist…, New Harbinger Publications (Third Edition, October 1, 2021).

Behary, W., Article: “Challenging the Narcissist, How to Find Pathways to Empathy”, Psychotherapy Networker, (July/August 2013).

Ogrodniczuk, J., Treating Pathological Narcissism, Chapter Author, Behary, W., The Art of Adaptive Re-Parenting in the Treatment of Narcissism, APA Publications, (2013).

Van Vreeswijk, M., The Handbook of Schema Therapy, Chapter Author, Behary, W., Schema Therapy for Narcissism, Wiley Publications, (2012).

Campbell, W.K., and Miller, J.D., The Handbook of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Chapter Author, Schema Therapy for Narcissism, Wiley Publications, (2011).

Dieckmann, E., and Behary, W., Journal Article: German Publication: Schematherapie: Ein Ansatz zur Behandlung narzisstischer Persönlichkeitsstörungen, Translation: Pattern Therapy: A Beginning for the Treatment of Narcissistic Personality Disturbances, 2010.

Behary, W., Article: The Way to Say It... Taking on Some of the Most Challenging Moments in the Treatment Room, In Consultation, Psychotherapy Networker, May/June 2010

Behary, W., Disarming The Narcissist...Surviving and Thriving With The Self- Absorbed, New Harbinger Publications, (First Edition, 2008).

Behary, W., Article: The Art of Empathic Confrontation, Case Studies, The Psychotherapy Networker, (March/April edition, 2008).

Shapiro, F., EMDR, An Integrative Psychotherapy Approach, Chapter Author, Zangwill, W., Young, J., and Behary, W., Integrating Schema Therapy with EMDR, American Psychological Association, (2002).

Tarrier, Wells, and Haddock, Treating Complex Cases, Chapter Author, Young, J., and Behary, W., Schema Focused Therapy for Personality Disorders, Wiley Series in Clinical Psychology, (1998).


Upcoming Sessions

We will meet every month throughout the year on varied days and times
to meet
the needs of all our members.

Can't attend LIVE? No Problem. You watch/listen later at your convenience.

Fees

Register for access to the online community.
$39

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